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Am I lucky to travel the world?

22/12/2019 by Roobens

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“Oh it seems like you’re having fun in the Gili islands! You’re so lucky to travel!” “Oh really you went horse riding in Kyrgyzstan!? So lucky!” “What the hell is this hole in the desert you saw the other day!? Oh man, you and your travels… You’re really lucky!” All those comments, and many more, I heard them. That’s what some people told me during conversations, or sometimes I was getting messages telling how lucky I was to travel the world. At first, when I was hearing those things, I was politely smiling. But the more I was hearing “You’re lucky to travel the world“, the more it started to piss me off! Cause… yeah, traveling the way I do, you cannot say it’s luck. Lemme explain myself.

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In Karakum desert in Darvaza, Turkmenistan

No, I’m not lucky to travel the world

Quite regularly, when I talk about my trips, I hear “So lucky!” “You’re lucky to travel the world!” But people tend to forget something : traveling the way I do, didn’t drop on me. Nobody gave me a magic ticket to gallivant from one country to another one. If it was the case, then yeah, I could say it’s luck. Long-term traveling is a choice I made. And I made this choice on my own. No one told me “Go travel the world, you’re gonna love it!” No no, after my layoff (for economic reasons with other colleagues), I decided to travel solo for some time.

gili islands lucky to travel
Sunset in Gili Trawangan

So after the layoff, no one told me “Hey you! It’s your lucky day! You’re gonna travel the world! Pack your stuff, you’re leaving next week!” You get it, traveling the way I do is a choice, and it has nothing to do with luck. No, I’m not lucky to travel the world, I chose it. And I made it a priority. When people tell me “I’d love to do the same“, I respond “Just do it then!” This is usually when I hear the first objection, the money! “I’d love to, but it’s very expensive to travel…“

neuschwanstein castle lucky to travel
Moreover, when you live in Europe, you can visit a lot of places without breaking the bank. This is Neuschwanstein castle in Germany!

Traveling is not that expensive with proper preparation, and that’s what I tell all those skeptical people. When you make the decision to travel, you have to check your spendings : limit to the minimum the nights out at the bar or the restaurant, cancel your various subscriptions (the gym, Netflix…), stop the shopping sprees, take a look at your spending habits (for instance make a list), find ways to trim your expenses, and if possible open a savings account for your travels to come…

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Saving money is faster when you track your spendings

In my case, I don’t attach much importance to material goods : I don’t have a car, no mortgage (yet), I don’t care about having the latest iPhone, I don’t have a Netflix subscription, I don’t lead a lavish lifestyle… It’s a choice but a also a way of life. When you hit the road, there are many tips to spend the least amount of money, but it’s another issue. Unless you love luxury, you only sleep in palaces, you eat in the fanciest restaurants in town, and you just want to get around by taxi, traveling isn’t necessarily expensive with proper preparation. And it’s definitely not reserved to an elite making a shitload of money. Really, it’s doable.

song kul lake lucky to travel
In Kyrgyzstan!

When the excuses are not about money, it’s either “I don’t have time” “I can’t get time off work” or “It’s too complicated…” Even when I suggest solutions to these people, they don’t try to get things done. The problem with people telling me how lucky I am to travel the world, is that they often hide behind the real reason preventing them from hitting the road : fear. They’re scared to hit the road and hide behind excuses like money, time, how complicated it is…

They’re waiting for the right time to travel… Not necessarily realizing that the perfect moment, when all the conditions will finally be met, will never come. Those people are scared to get out of their comfort zone, and they watch those who travel, saying “How lucky you are to travel the world!“

munnar lucky to travel
In Munnar, India

Most of the time, that’s what they say after watching pictures published on social media. Don’t forget social media often shows the positive side of travels, and nothing else. Those who personally know me already know, but I’m not much into Facebook, Instagram… and I don’t sugarcoat my life on those platforms. But most of the time, people only show the tip of the iceberg, let’s not forget it.

Over time, I met more and more travelers, and I realized those whose really wanna travel, make it happen! When you want to go, you just go, full stop! And I’m not just talking about solo travelers! I met families (parents and children) long-term traveling, couples over 70 hitting the road, I met a guy using crutches and I even met a blind woman who was traveling with her boyfriend (he wasn’t blind). In those cases, age, kids, disability weren’t obstacles to their will to travel the world.

batumi beach lucky to travel
I met a backpacker using crutches in Batumi, Georgia!

Once again, it’s all about choices, they made their decisions. The hardest thing to do, is to leave. Once you start hitting the road, it gets a lot easier. Yes, you’re spending money, but man, all the memories, the new friends you’re gonna make, all the experiences, no one’s gonna take that away from you. As they say “Travel is the only thing you buy that makes you richer“.

The thing is… When I hear “Oh you’re lucky“, I feel like this comment diminishes all the sacrifices made to start long-term traveling : the potential career, the comfort, the daily routine, the absence of friends and relatives… A lot of people complain about their daily routine, their job… But how many of them do something to shake things up? And I’m not even talking just about travel! But you have to take risks and get shit done in order to move on. As they say, you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take!

skyscanner inspire map lucky to travel
After being laid off, I took the decision to travel the world!

You have to “create” your own luck, you have to provoke it. “But you’re so lucky, you learn new languages so quickly…” Again, practicing different languages in Paris is a choice I made, it has nothing to do with luck! I didn’t wanna have a hard time communicating with people on the road. Most of the time, those who say I’m lucky to travel the world have a mindset issue and/or a spending issue.

Anyway, when I started traveling, the more people were telling “You’re lucky to travel“, the more I was getting irritated. But over time, I started thinking again. Indeed, I was visiting more and more countries, and interacting with locals coming from cultures so different from ours, and at the end, I was like… actually I think I’m lucky to travel the world. Why did I change my mind over time?

Actually yeah, I’m lucky to travel the world

I remember this young Indonesian guy in Kuta, he was a waiter in a restaurant. The food was delicious, and I was going there on a regular basis to eat (alone). He was serving me food, and we were talking about everything and nothing. I ended up getting on well with him. One day, he told me “We see a lot of people like you, coming from Europe or Australia, and traveling for several months, here and in the neighboring countries… How long are you going to travel for?” I’ve never felt comfortable telling the local population I’m long-term traveling, especially seeing their daily life… So generally, I lie “I’m in Indonesia for three weeks, then I’m going back home in Paris” He started thinking, and he asked about my itinerary in Indonesia. And then “How much is a round trip ticket from Paris???” I don’t remember what I told him, but I made up an amount. It blew his mind “Wow! Over there, you have the means to pay ALL THIS to come over here, and to stay for three weeks without working? Just traveling!? You’re so lucky!!!“

kuta bali lucky to travel
In Kuta, Indonesia

I have to admit I didn’t know what to say, and I felt a bit uncomfortable. At the time I had already re-evaluated my reasoning about the luck to travel, but at this exact moment, I had to face the reality : yeah I’m lucky to travel the world, I have luck since I can travel! I was saying earlier that traveling is about priorities and making choices, and it’s not wrong. The thing is, many people on this planet don’t have the luxury to have the choice, and traveling is probably one of their last priorities. Eating a good meal, drinking, having a roof over their heads, clothes to wear, feeding their families, taking care of their aging parents, those are their priorities (remember Maslow’s pyramid?). In some cases, they just live from day to day…

This is when I realize not everyone can travel, and I’m a privileged person. Even if they’re dying to travel the world, it’s just not possible for them. My trip represents months of salary for them, an inaccessible dream. And let’s not forget that in some areas of the world, they just have a few days off per year…

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Not sure traveling is their priority. In fact, I’m not sure they want to travel!

It’s impossible to deny it, I’m lucky to be born in a rich country, I didn’t choose it, and that’s a big difference! Being a French citizen, I live daily with a strong currency on a global scale, the euro. This currency, and the standard of living we have in France, allow to travel in many places without breaking the bank. With our euros, we can do a LOT of things in poorer countries. For that reason alone, I can say I’m lucky, this is not the case for a lot of people. Being French, I have a strong passport, which allows me to visit 165 countries without applying for a visa (source : Passport Index). Therefore I go through customs smoothly (in theory!).

iran lucky to travel
Even if I want to go to Iran, with a French passport, it’s easy!

And what if I had a Haitian passport, my country of origin? The number drops to 61 countries only visa-free. Even with a lot of money, it wouldn’t have been easy. When you have to apply for a visa with a Haitian passport (or a passport from a poor country), you enter a fierce battle to get your visa, unlike a Westerner applying for a visa to go somewhere on vacation. They ask for your bank statements, a return ticket, they investigate about your job, they ask all kind of questions to make sure you’re gonna come back. It ain’t easy for everyone…

There it goes again when they finally arrive at the customs. I saw it, some customs officers completely disrespect travelers with a “weak” passport. Some things Westerners never have to go through, everything is so easier. When I think about all those perks we have, I have to say I’m lucky to travel the world. I’m lucky to have a passport without much visa restrictions, and I’m lucky to come from a rich country, which is not the case for everyone.

sultan abdul samad edifice kuala lumpur lucky to travel
At the customs in Malaysia, a few customs officers were not respecting some travelers. One of them was stamping the passports while watching videos on this phone.

Until now, I wrote about how lucky I am since I come from a rich country, it’s easier, etc… But even for a Westerner, I can say I’m lucky. First off, I’m in good physical health. I can get up, walk, hike, bike, wander around the streets in full autonomy. I can see, I can hear, and I can express myself in a normal way. I don’t have to ask if there’s an elevator or a wheelchair ramp when I visit a tourist attraction. All those things make me realize I’m a privileged person. I don’t have allergies either. I don’t have real family obligations (I’m not talking about having kids because it’s not a good excuse, but for instance having to take care of family members).

Getting into debt to pay your studies, paying for some of your parents’ expenses, support financially your family members… It’s a reality for many people. Some people face great debt and it’s not their fault… It’s a good thing to say you worked hard to travel the world, but don’t forget it’s a lot easier to save money when your parents paid for your studies, your rent, your groceries, your phone bill, etc… Traveling is out of reach for many people. The problem is… When I hear “Oh you’re so lucky!“, it usually comes from people like me, who can do it too if they really want to. People in good health, who have money, with no family obligations and who can take the plunge if they really want to.

therme bucuresti bucharest lucky to travel
Therme Bucuresti in Bucharest

Am I lucky to travel the world?

So… Am I lucky to travel the world? I guess I am. Does it annoy me when people tell me that? It depends who made the comment. But one thing for sure, unlike what I read here and there, I’ll never say that everyone can travel. It’s not true. Very few people can leave it all behind and hit the road, knowing friends and family are waiting for them back home. And very few people have the option to save money to travel (and not to pay the rent, food, or medical bills). So yeah, I’m lucky to travel the world. And unfortunately no, not everyone can travel. Not everyone necessarily wants to travel, and not everyone is made for travel. But it’s another debate.

What do you think? Are you lucky to travel the world? Or is it all about hard work and perseverance? Let me know!

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  1. Nina | Lemons and Luggage says

    24/12/2018 at 20:42

    It’s so true that not everyone can travel, and it’s very condescending when people say everyone can do it. I think we are lucky but we also don’t do certain other things other people may do so it’s a bit of work and luck at the same time.

    • Roobens says

      25/12/2018 at 14:42

      Yeah right. I also think it’s condescending when people say everyone can do it! It’s definitely luck, but also a bit of work and choices as well!

  2. Valerie Delzer says

    25/12/2018 at 16:21

    Luck has only a little bit to do with it. It’s all about motivation, desire, determination to see the world. Not everyone has a desire to physically get out there and travel but many will live vicariously through travel stories that travel bloggers share. Or at the very least, get some inspiration to maybe take a chance and go somewhere!

    • Roobens says

      26/12/2018 at 14:17

      Yeah right, sooo many condescending travelers tend to forget some people have absolutely zero desire to travel!

  3. Calvin says

    26/12/2018 at 03:18

    This is probably the more balanced of opinions on this question of luck vs privilege. There are many types of luck and many types of privilege and it is easy for those who have it to forget. I’m also happy that you brought fear into the equation as that is also a big obstacle for those who really can travel. For those, it’s a matter of priorities. Thanks for sharing your perspectives!

    • Roobens says

      26/12/2018 at 14:19

      Thanks, appreciate your comment!

  4. Ryan K Biddulph says

    26/12/2018 at 06:27

    So strange Roobens how people surrender their power of free will to a bizarre concept like luck LOL. Plus neat to know many folks who love home so much and have zero desire to travel, like many childhood buddies of mine.

    • Roobens says

      26/12/2018 at 14:27

      Haha yeah right. Thank you!

  5. Teja says

    26/12/2018 at 12:39

    To be honest, knowing people who are actually justified to say ‘you’re so lucky’ makes me feel even more pissed off at the people who usually say it. Fortunately for me, being Asian myself, and studiously avoiding the more privileged circles who often also have this mentality, most of my friends are at least honestly vicariously enjoying my trips! They tacitly accept that they can’t have everything, and that they have simply chosen different things instead of travel, and that in fact they are somewhat too scared to travel quite like I do, but aren’t interested to work on that. I’m cool with self-aware people 🙂

    After all I, in turn, have my own limits that I’m not interested to increase! I can’t see myself ever wanting to reach peaks enough to build mountain climbing skills, for example. Nor bike touring or being a true vagabond. I read other people’s stories for that!

    • Roobens says

      26/12/2018 at 14:46

      Amen. Same here, I know people who are justified to say “you’re lucky!”, and I cringe when an able-bodied, upper middle class, Western person, says the same thing. And my friends also realize they can’t have everything, we just took different paths.

      Most of my friends say I’m an adventurer but to me, I’m far from being one. I met travelers wandering from place to place, not knowing where they’re going to sleep that very evening. This is definitely not me! 😀

  6. Cato says

    26/12/2018 at 20:06

    Great Article man! And I agree with you, not everyone can or even should travel! I think travel is a privilege that most of us take too often for granted and it’s good to reflect on this.

    • Roobens says

      27/12/2018 at 19:40

      Thank you! Yeah travel is definitely a privilege!

  7. Jenn Meyers says

    09/01/2019 at 21:08

    This is an awesome article and I love that you included two different perspectives!

    • Roobens says

      10/01/2019 at 13:01

      Thank you! 🙂

  8. Book Taxi says

    10/07/2019 at 15:42

    It’s so true that not everyone can travel, and it’s very condescending when people say everyone can do it. I think we are lucky but we also don’t do certain other things other people may do so it’s a bit of work and luck at the same time.

    • Roobens says

      13/07/2019 at 11:29

      Yeah right

  9. luxury hotels says

    12/07/2019 at 18:37

    Hello, Luck has only a little bit to do with it. It’s all about motivation, desire, determination to see the world. Not everyone has a desire to physically get out there and travel but many will live vicariously through travel stories that travel bloggers share. Or at the very least, get some inspiration to maybe take a chance and go somewhere!

    • Roobens says

      13/07/2019 at 11:30

      We’re still lucky to travel when we come from a rich country, and have the luxury to choose whether we want to travel or not.

  10. ESTA Application says

    28/08/2019 at 12:11

    Thanks a lot for sharing such a nice and informative article, really a very nice and detailed review on it.

    • Roobens says

      29/08/2019 at 15:28

      Thank you

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